Plants: The Sunshine On a Gloomy Day

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It is windy and raining! The past couple of months have been quite hectic in California, especially in the High Desert. It is as though Mother Nature is going through a phase … you know, like mood swing. One week we have high temperatures and the other, low temperatures. Even our bodies are becoming confused and concerned. I, personally, have not sneezed this much before.

A couple of years ago, we were gifted a few California Redbud seedlings. I wasn’t sure they would survive, since I have not seen any in the area. They are slow growers and are adapting well. I was pleasantly surprised to find them covered in tiny blooms. The Cercis occidentalis, also known as Western Redbud or California Redbud, is a deciduous shrub or small tree found in the foothills and mountains of California, as well as Utah and Arizona.

Western Redbud.

The Lavender Lady Lilac are thriving.

Lavender Lady Lilac.

The French Lavender seedling I transplanted last spring has grown so much …

French Lavender.

The Hedgehog Cactus has grown taller. Almost half of the buds are open, and the blooms are stunning.

Hedgehog Cactus.
Hedgehog Cactus.

Last Fall, I noticed that all my rose bushes on the left side of the front yard were not as healthy as they should have been and were not blooming as much either. We waited until they were dormant and relocated them to the backyard. They are now healthy, thriving, and blooming profusely.

Angel Face Rose.
Perfume Delight Rose.

The Lady Banks roses are blooming profusely this Spring and gracing the garden arches and gazebo with their delicate flowers.

Yellow and White Lady Banks Roses.

Below is one of the two remaining original Photinia Fraseri shrubs. As you can see, it’s no longer a shrub, but a tree. I worked very hard on them after getting rid of over 30 shrubs along the front yard fence a couple of years ago and relocating two in the backyard. The shrub went through some hard pruning and straightening to look like that today. It’s healthy, beautiful, and thriving.

Red Tip Photinia Tree.

Nothing beats reading a good book on a gloomy day; on this note, I wish you all a wonderful weekend.

Happy gardening!

A Warm Weekend In Maryland

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I finally met Alicia Joann, my goddaughter …

She was baptized on the weekend with her brother. I love you, child!
Beautiful, smart, kind, gentle, amazing, calm, and composed, with the usual teenager vibe.
It was love at second sight – with the original emotions all over again, except this time, I could actually embrace her, talk to her, pray for her, and bless her.

Look at her gorgeous mother, Evelyne. I am just so grateful to have a sister like her, and most importantly, I am so blessed to have been adopted into the family thirty-three years ago. The Mighty God who knew me and my story before I was formed in my mother’s womb entrusted me to her family. Here we are today.

Evelyne and Joan.
“Having somewhere to go is home. Having someone to love is family. And having both is a blessing.” – Unknown
    • I missed our first daughter, who couldn’t make it due to school activities.
    • I got to enjoy the company of the other ” J” babies.
    • There was Felix, all grown with his swag …
    • Then there was Sir Boniface, who took forever to notice me. When he finally put one plus one together, however, it was magical. I owe this brother a debt I cannot repay.
    • It was wonderful to spend some time with aunt Grace. Mom, you are a phenomenal woman! Your advice as usual is invaluable. It feels so good to be in your presence. I love you so much.
    • And of course, our Daddy was there in spirit, given the occasion. We miss you, Paps!
  • Emilienne: ♥❤♥. My heart is with you, always.

We laughed, we cried, we drank fine wine, we ate to our satisfaction (chef Jenifer, our graceful sister, made sure of it). We were graced by the presence of our very own ‘highness’ (how nice it was to tease you, sister-sister. That’s how much we love and cherish you).

Sending you love and strength during this difficult time as I stand with you in prayers.

A Closed Door To New Beginnings

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“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” ― Martin Luther King Jr.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!
2025 is finally here. The Sun has risen, another day has begun, we are still here, and we can embark on that journey of endless possibilities. A toast to you all for a beautiful, peaceful, healthy, and prosperous year.

2024 was bittersweet. It was a year of temptations and personal growth. It was a year of revelations, acceptance, surrender, and letting go. I was given a rare opportunity to peek into the hearts of wicked men and witness the effects of greed and twisted ego. Now I know I must remain true to myself. Acceptance is liberating.
Just as I was closing down a few doors, others opened up for me. I was blessed with opportunities, and in turn, I blessed others in need. I am grateful for good health, my children who keep me grounded, my big brother who is helping me cultivate the art of patience, and my Mother, who seems to have made it her mission to make me laugh on a daily basis. And then, there are my jewels of good friends. Kindness is rewarded.

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As I continue to mourn the loss of many, I give thanks to God for the precious gift of their lives, the beautiful memories we shared, and the hope of reuniting with them again in eternity. While it is impossible to move on, or get over the passing of a loved one, we can learn to cope and live with it as we move forward. May the peace of God surround you as you navigate this challenging time of loss. Today, I can attest that God’s love and grace is unchanging and unfailing, even in grief. God is good all the time; believe He is with you (Lamentations 3:32).

I learned and grew tremendously this past year, and after completely de-cluttering my mind and surrendering to God, He is slowly showing me His path for my life. I am at peace, happy, healthy, and resolute. I remain in a state of gratitude, and I am ready to take on 2025.

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Every day is a new beginning, a chance to start again by turning over a new leaf. We should all aspire to move onto bigger and better things or smaller and meaningful things.

May this year be one of healing, restoration, peace, endless possibilities, and abundant blessings.

“The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide you’re not going to stay where you are.” ― J.P. Morgan